![]() ![]() That’s why couples who feel close tend to have women who orgasm more. The physical urge is actually often fueled by an emotional connection. Here’s what we often don’t understand: Desire is not just about a physical urge. The more you can help her “dump” the things out of her mind, the easier it is for her to let the concerns of the day go so she can have fun! 2. If you can shoulder some of that–say, by taking responsibility for an upcoming birthday party a child is invited to (which involves buying the present, driving the child to the party, picking him or her up, etc.), then she doesn’t have to worry about it. The mental load of housework and child care falls disproportionately on the woman. ![]() Or does she have things she needs to remember about tomorrow? Set up a big calendar on the wall ( here’s a cool one) where you can write in your schedule, her schedule, the kids’ schedules, and you can talk about it every night after dinner so that you both know what’s going on. So go for a walk after dinner and let her tell you what’s on her mind. “Is there anything on your mind I can help you sort through?” Some women need to be able to talk everything through. Then, once she’s done that, ask her about it. Some women need time alone to process–so make it a habit to give her time to go jogging, to have a bath, to journal, or whatever it may be. Be an equal partner with housework throughout the day so she doesn’t have as much on her plate at night.īut then also help her process those feelings. So first and foremost, help her complete the tasks. Sometimes it’s also bad feelings about negative conversations she’s had with friends or family, or feeling as if some part of her life is out of whack. And often those million things are tasks that need to be completed, housework that needs to be done, or things that she needs to remember about tomorrow. It’s hard for women to get in the mood, let alone enjoy sex, if they have a million things on their mind. I also asked on Facebook for some advice from all my female readers, and some of their responses will be sprinkled in here as well! But here we go: How husbands can get their wives in the mood. ![]() So for today’s post I thought I’d write how men can seduce their wives–or at least help their wives hopefully want to have sex more. If your wife never wants to sleep with you, and if sex has become rare in your marriage, what can you do to get your wife in the mood?Ī lot of my readers are actually HUSBANDS (I’m so glad you’re here!), and so every now and then I like to offer up a “men’s corner” post directed more at guys. ![]()
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